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How can we make blowjobs more exciting and fun for both of us?
Have you ever thought that giving or receiving a blowjob could become boring? It may seem ridiculous until you’ve been in a longer-term relationship. It’s then that you notice the frequency of blowjobs diminishing to the point of happening once or twice a year, if at all.
Let’s be clear: oral pleasuring as part of foreplay may occur whenever you have sex. A blowjob to orgasm is different. For many men, when they come, that’s the end of the sex session most times. Of course, some guys will be ready to go again in minutes or hours. Others may require a day or more to recuperate. Regardless, many women still enjoy performing blowjobs. They will forego having intercourse in various situations and for various reasons.
However, even if you both enjoy blowjobs in your sex life, the number you give or receive will eventually drop off significantly. Consider your current or past relationship if you’re with a new partner. Were the blowjob encounters spontaneous, fun and exciting? How have they evolved as your relationship matured?
One of the curious aspects of long-term relationships is that we tend to care about our partners more and become more comfortable with each other. Weird as it may sound, that is actually bad for thrilling, titillating sex. In the case of blowjobs, a woman may be performing amazing oral sex, but the guy doesn’t want to come in her mouth. She may have worked hard to get him to blow, but he pulls out to have intercourse with her instead. He may be thinking he doesn’t want to deprive her of pleasure even though she may have been having the time of her life sucking him off. Maybe she was thinking he would go down on her afterwards. Instead, they both default to sexual intercourse without directly or explicitly communicating their desires.
Either way, she may come to think intercourse is his preferred method of orgasm whether she comes with penetrative sex or not.
Guys may also be anxious about asking their partner for a blowjob. It may feel selfish to ask her to suck him off. He may wrongly assume she doesn’t actually enjoy performing it. He may have bought into the idea that “good girls” don’t do that while forgetting that being naughty adds to her sexual pleasure. Suppressing her sense of “being bad” could dampen her sexual desires and reduce her willingness to experiment in the bedroom.
Consider asking each other intimate questions to identify how you each feel about performing and receiving blowjobs. You know that you both enjoy them. Figure out a way to make sure they are a more regular part of your sex life.
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