Foreplay is an extremely important part of an intimate sexual relationship. But the type and quantity of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. In some situations very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’ve both used “mental foreplay” to get excited leading up to your sexual encounter. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind down period of relaxing sensual pleasure before making love together. To feel fully satisfied, an orgasm is not always enough. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate sexual questions about foreplay, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun sexy questions to ask each other about foreplay. They are intended to be gender neutral so specific references to penis, clitoris, vagina, etc. are left out on purpose. Use these intimate questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once or even in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Note that some questions may seem very similar but the wording is different which affects how you think about it. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and followup discussions. In this way you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
Foreplay Questions: Quantity and Quality
- How important is foreplay to you for great sex?
- When does foreplay end and sex begin?
- What makes for good foreplay?
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Sensual Pleasures
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy as foreplay for your pleasure?
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy performing as foreplay for my pleasure?
- What parts of your body do you most enjoy getting massaged?
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Stimulating Erogenous Zones
- Can intercourse be foreplay?
- What do you think are my most sensitive erogenous zones?
- What foreplay technique do you feel gets me most excited and why?
- What are your most ticklish erogenous zones?
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Have You Ever Sex Play Questions
- Have you ever been tied up, blindfolded and teased as foreplay?
- Have you ever used whipped cream or chocolate syrup during foreplay?
- Have you ever used body paints as foreplay?
- Have you ever performed a strip tease?
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Mental Foreplay to Arouse Desire
- How do you feel about mental stimulation as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use dirty talk as part of our foreplay?
- In what ways do you feel erotica can be used as foreplay?
- How do you feel about watching porn together as foreplay?
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Wild and Fun Foreplay
- How do you think we can make foreplay more fun?
- In what ways do you feel we can make our foreplay more creative?
- What kinds of foreplay games have you played?
- What kinds of foreplay games would you like to play?
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Extra Naughty Foreplay Possibilities
- How do you think we can come up with new foreplay ideas to try?
- How do you feel about spanking as part of foreplay?
- How do you feel about being blindfolded while I surprise you with pleasure?
- Are there any bondage devices you would like to use in our foreplay?
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These foreplay questions are just a few samples to help get your intimate conversation started. Use them to trigger your own ideas for fun sexy questions to ask each other. Try to come up with your own sex questions that will help you reveal new ways to improve your sex life. For more relationship questions about a range of topics, check out the 1000 Questions to Ask Your Partner and 500 Intimate Questions for Couples.
If you are just starting to date, the dating questions can help you determine if you should continue to pursue the relationship or not. If you’re already a couple, the love questions can help improve your relationship and even help fix your marriage.
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How do you feel about your first sexual experiences?
If either of you are looking forward to your first sexual experience, rephrase the question to ask about your expectations, thoughts and feelings. Everyone wants their first sexual experience to be special. During your first sexual encounter, your body chemistry intensifies your thoughts and emotions to leave a lasting impression that may affect all future intimate relationships. First time experiences range from traumatic to mundane to thrilling. Some people want to forget their first time while others cherish the memories. But rather than focusing on when you lost your virginity, consider all the other possible first time experiences of an erotic, sensual or sexual nature. Each of these events in your past affect the intimacy in your relationship to a varying degree. By asking intimate questions regarding how you each feel about various first time sexual experiences, you’ll get a better understanding of each other’s desires, preferences, inhibitions and fears.
For more relationship questions, get a copy of 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and start a discussion to discover new ways to improve your sex life. What other first time experiences can you think of?
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In your opinion, how is having sex different from making love?
Making love is normally associated with romance and emotional intimacy while having sex may be viewed as just a physical activity. But where you draw the line can become the root of some serious issues in a relationship. How you both answer this question can give clues as to your expectations regarding love, sex and intimacy. For instance, couples may have sex to relieve stress as one among many possible reasons. Due to time constraints some sex sessions may also be performed very quickly before work or sleep without much foreplay or after play. In these situations, one of you may view the sex as emotionally fulfilling while the other feels something is lacking. Even if both of you experienced an orgasm, a different type of sexual expression may be required for one of you to feel that you were making love together. Just sex may be okay at times as long as a corresponding amount of quality lovemaking occurs to compensate.
Also, different attitudes about sex and lovemaking can lead to interesting rationalizations regarding issues of fidelity. Masturbation may be deemed cheating by some people while others may view any activity with another partner that does not involve intercourse to be okay. Get 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and ensure you know the answers to these important relationship questions.
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What aspects of your parent’s relationship do you feel most influence you in our relationship?
We all know that our parents had a tremendous influence on how our own mindset and behaviour patterns formed. As kids we pick up all kinds of information that gets integrated into our thoughts, feelings and actions. Without even realizing it, we tend to model their behaviours and pick up some of their attitudes and opinions. We also consciously reject certain aspects and do the complete opposite. By asking each other intimate questions about your parent’s relationships, you will discover clues about how your relationship may unfold. These type of relationship questions can lead to some extremely important discussions.
Check out 1000 Questions To Ask Your Partner and 500 Intimate Questions for Couples if you are in the process of starting a relationship. These love conversation questions deal with a range of topics you may not even have considered asking your partner. Having intimate discussions about all aspects of your relationship can help reveal potential issues or difficulties that may arise in the future. With the knowledge you gain, you’ll be better able to get into a happy relationship and ensure that it lasts.
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What forms of sex education did you receive and how are you continuing to learn more?
When and how someone learns about sex can have a significant impact on their attitudes and behaviours in a loving relationship. By discussing intimate questions regarding how you both first learned about sex, you may discover false beliefs and negative thinking patterns that can be adjusted or relearned. And since there are always new tips and techniques for improving your skills as a lover, finding out if your partner is open to learning new ideas can be very revealing about your future sex life together. Developing your curiosity about sex and exploring creative new lovemaking ideas together can be very rewarding.
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Mar 11
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Sexy Questions of the Week #3
Here is a recap of last week’s daily sex questions. We hope you enjoy discussing the daily sex questions with the one you love. These intimate questions are intended to help you start a conversation and inspire you to spice up your love life. We hope these sexy questions help you improve your relationship and fix your marriage. If you are just starting a relationship, our dating questions may help reveal who’s right for you.
- What is your favourite sex position and what do you like about it?
- What position do you prefer or find most comfortable for oral sex (giving/receiving)?
- How would you feel and react when you’re about to have sex but encounter erectile dysfunction?
- What is your best tip or technique for performing great oral sex on a woman?
- What forms of “mental foreplay” help you get in the mood for sex?
- In what ways would you like to spice up our foreplay so it’s more fun and lasts even longer?
- What is your best tip or technique for performing great oral sex on a guy?
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