If one of us cheated, do you feel it’s better to confess it or try to forget it happened and why?
Although intended as a theoretical question, discussing this sensitive topic can be emotionally unsettling for some people. How you each answer this intimate question can be very revealing about your different perspectives on fidelity and it’s impact on your relationship. Of course, if an affair or even a one time fling does happen, how you actually react depends on the context and current state of your relationship. However, just like preparing a Will, when you confront any fears you have about this issue and openly discuss it, you demonstrate a strength of character required for deeper levels of intimate communication.
Taking the risk to ask each other delicate relationship questions may make you feel vulnerable but it helps build emotional trust. Tackling hard conversation questions can be a valuable exercise for couples. It’ll give you both the confidence to deal with many other types of tough problems that you may encounter during your life together.
In the unfortunate event that you believe your partner is cheating on you, take a look at How to Catch Your Cheating Lover and find out what you can do about. That is if you really want to know.
Also, if you learn how someone cheats, you may be better prepared to catch them: How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress.
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In your opinion, what are the key reasons that lead people to have extramarital affairs?
Although everyone knows having an affair can be devastating for all involved, it’s unfortunately a common problem many couples endure. Normally there are signs that the relationship is in trouble before one or both of you succumb to temptation. Understanding what would cause either of you to have an affair can give you insight for how to make sure the need or desire never happens. This is a serious relationship question that requires a deep discussion about your individual physical and emotional needs. There are various types of intimate love questions to ask your partner that will help you identify how to make sure you remain happily faithful and committed to each other in a long term relationship.
If you suspect your partner is pulling away and getting ready to move on, there are some things you can do to improve your relationship before a potential breakup occurs. If you want a blissful marriage, check out the book Marriage on the Rock 25th Anniversary: The Comprehensive Guide to a Solid, Healthy and Lasting Marriage. It’s a comprehensive guide to a solid, healthy and lasting marriage – everything you need to enhance your relationship with more emotional intimacy, better communication and, of course, amazing sex.
You can also get your love back if you recently experienced a breakup or separation. See the book Win Your Partner Back After A Break Up.
In the unfortunate event that you believe your partner is cheating on you, take a look at How to Catch Your Cheating Lover and find out what you can do about. That is if you really want to know.
Also, if you learn how someone cheats, you may be better prepared to catch them: How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress.
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Mar 11
14
Daily Sex Question: Is It Cheating
What activities do you consider “cheating” in a committed relationship?
A lot of relationships have been destroyed by the green monster called Jealousy. Fears of infidelity may cause some people to act in ways that can actually push a loved one away. This can lead to exactly what they wanted to avoid. Even if they don’t split up, the undue stress put on the relationship can have a lasting negative effect. Unfortunately, fidelity in a relationship is not as cut and dried as having or avoiding sexual intercourse with someone else.
Cheating is more about breaking trust in the partnership at some deeper emotional level. The problem is most couples don’t communicate their expectations or identify their individual perspectives clearly to each other. There are various love and dating questions to ask your partner that can help start a discussion about this sensitive topic. You’ll want a range of intimate questions to ask your partner about different aspects of your life together. Many will deal with love and sex (masturbation, porn, fantasies, etc.), but you’ll also want to explore time alone, finances, friends, privacy and life goals as just a few examples.
Get your copy of 1000 Love Questions to Ask Your Partner for more love questions to ask your girlfriend, boyfriend or potential life partner. You can download the ebook now and get your conversation started right away. These are great dating questions, but if you’re married, you’ll find them just as valuable as a way to improve your marriage and regain your love for each other.
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Mar 11
12
Sexy Questions of the Week #4
Here is a recap of last week’s daily sex questions. We hope you enjoy discussing fun relationship questions with the one you love. These intimate questions are intended to help you start a conversation and inspire you to spice up your love life. We hope these sexy questions help you improve your relationship and fix your marriage. If you are just starting a relationship, our dating questions may help reveal who’s right for you.
- How do you feel about the quantity and quality of sex in our relationship?
- What forms of sex education did you receive and how are you continuing to learn more?
- What aspects of your parent’s relationship do you feel most influence you in our relationship?
- In your opinion, how is having sex different from making love?
- How do you feel about your first sexual experiences?
- What do you feel are the keys to a long-lasting, monogamous relationship?
- What forms of affection and non-sexual intimacy do you want more of in our relationship?
Check back to each of the daily sex questions to see related resources and other useful information for getting the love, sex and intimacy you desire and deserve.
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What forms of affection and non-sexual intimacy do you want more of in our relationship?
Following on from yesterday’s relationship question, feeling loved and appreciated by your partner involves much more than having sex or making love. Various signs of caring and affection throughout the day can be extremely important to your love life especially if they don’t directly lead to sex. Think of it like charging a love battery. If it’s fully charged, your sexual energy will be more intense. You can use it without recharging for a while, but eventually it drains and puts out the spark in your sex life.
Maintaining an intimate connection with hugs, kisses and touching (holding hands, cuddling, caresses, etc.) throughout the day is essential for keeping your love energy glowing. When you add in various types of emotional intimacy (communication, flirting, thoughtfulness, support, mutual fun, etc.), you can amp up the power even more. Ask each other intimate questions about what helps power up your love and you’ll be surprised by the sexual energy you can generate in the bedroom.
If your love battery has drained and you’ve thought of getting a boost from another partner, check out Couples Therapy Workbook: 30 Guided Conversations to Re-Connect Relationships.
Intimate massage is also a great way to sensually bond with your partner. Use these love vouchers to inspire a night of sensual bliss.
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What do you feel are the keys to a long lasting, monogamous relationship?
There was a recent article in the news about a new survey suggesting couples are encountering relationship problems much sooner. Rather than a 7 year itch, couples are finding day to day stresses are causing relationship issues as early as 3 years. This “three year glitch” comes with increased complaints about small irritations that used to be overlooked. These passion killers eventually lead to a decline in emotional intimacy and less sex.
You can combat the statistics and ensure your relationship has a fighting chance by discussing what you both believe contributes to a long lasting and happy relationship. When you are aware of what’s essential for your relationship, you’ll be better prepared to make things work. If you’re married or in a long term relationship, keep tabs on how your love life is going by asking each other a few intimate questions now and again. If you’re just starting a relationship, dating questions about how to keep your passion alive for the long term can help you create the foundation for a wonderful partnership.
If you want to ensure your relationship has the greatest chance to succeed, consider playing a relationship game for couples. They provide a fun way to improve your relationship with more emotional intimacy, better communication and, of course, great sex. Consider the game Life Sutra Couples Games – 400 Conversation Starters for Married Couples.
Also, for a blissful marriage, check out the book Marriage on the Rock 25th Anniversary: The Comprehensive Guide to a Solid, Healthy and Lasting Marriage. It’s a comprehensive guide to a solid, healthy and lasting marriage – everything you need to enhance your relationship with more emotional intimacy, better communication and, of course, amazing sex.
Intimate massage is a great way to sensually bond with your partner. Use these love vouchers to inspire a night of sensual bliss together.
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