What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?
Although our biology plays a big part, many of our sexual preferences are formed based on our early experiences. This is a complex psychological process. Because our experiences, interpretations and emotional impressions are all different, we are each unique in what we find erotic and arousing. But regardless of how your erotic preferences developed, they define your distinct sexual personality and affect how you interact with your partner. It can feel scary exploring and learning about what turns you on let alone discussing it with your partner. Although it requires a lot of trust to share these deeply personal and private details, revealing insights into your erotic nature can be extremely rewarding for both of you. By asking intimate dating questions about what turns you on, you create a strong emotional connection which will dramatically enhance your sex life.
As you explore and begin to appreciate your unique erotic personalities, you’ll be able to inspire each other to shed inhibitions and reach new heights of passion together. Take a look at the book Getting The Sex You Want for more information about discovering what turns you on. It has a variety of exercises to help develop your sexual communication skills and expand your sexual comfort zones together.
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What kinds of activities do you consider to be kinky?
When thinking of dating questions to ask, keep the topic of kinky sex reserved for when your relationship gets more intimate. At some point though, you’ll want to explore how sexually compatible you are together. How you each categorize various types of erotic activities will give you both a sense of your sexual comfort zones and the amount of overlap. Keep in mind that thinking something is kinky does not mean it’s totally forbidden. In fact, the taboo nature of certain erotic pleasures can make it more fun when you’re both feeling a little naughty. Knowing what’s kinky in your relationship just means you avoid it for normal lovemaking while keeping it in reserve for special times together.
As a married couple, you’ll also want to ask each other intimate questions about your current thoughts on various erotic activities. Your attitudes about sex constantly evolve as you grow and learn more. Your inhibitions may have stopped you in the past but you may discover you’re now both open to exploring new pleasure possibilities.
When you ask each other these types of intimate questions in a fun way, you’ll both enjoy talking about sex more. And, the more you talk about sex together, the better it’ll be. Why leave it to guess work, just ask each other and discover what you both want in bed.
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Here is a recap of last week’s daily sex questions. We hope you enjoy discussing fun relationship questions with the one you love. These intimate questions are intended to help you start a conversation and inspire you to spice up your love life. We believe these sexy questions can help you improve your relationship and fix your marriage. If you are just starting a relationship, our dating questions may help reveal who’s right for you.
- What activities do you consider “cheating” in a committed relationship?
- In your opinion, what are the key reasons that lead people to have extramarital affairs?
- If one of us cheated, do you feel it’s better to confess it or try to forget it happened and why?
- How can we make sure we remain happily faithful and committed to each other in a long term relationship?
- Why do you think the divorce rate is so high and how can we avoid the same fate?
- What kinds of “adulterous” scenarios or fantasies would you consider role playing together?
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What kinds of “adulterous” scenarios or fantasies would you consider role playing together?
To end off this week’s relationship questions about cheating, infidelity and divorce, let’s shift from serious to fun sex questions to ask your partner. Today’s question is still about having an affair, but with your partner and not someone outside your relationship. Start a conversation about different roleplay scenarios that deal with adulterous situations. They may even fuel some new erotic fantasies. To spice up your relationship and add a touch of adventure to your love life, you could act out a few of your sexual fantasies together.
For instance, you could roleplay as a boss and secretary, paying for a call girl or escort, picking up a stranger in a bar or meeting your mistress at a hotel. Think of different ways you can seduce and sin with your partner. Create more naughty excitement by building in a sense of secrecy combined with the risk of getting “caught”. When you’re bad together, it’s even more fun.
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Even if you don’t get around to role playing, you can come up with some erotic ideas for talking dirty to each other. Like mental foreplay, you can even send sexy text messages to each other based around one of your favourite sex fantasies. Get each other in the mood and feeling frisky with thoughts of wildly wicked sex.
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Why do you think the divorce rate is so high and how can we avoid the same fate?
We have all heard the dire statistics about how high the divorce rate is. We are also living longer which means successful marriages last longer too. With a healthy partnership, this can be a blessing. But relationships not built on a strong foundation are much more susceptible to failure. Is marriage for life still a viable option for couples today or will serial marriages become the normal way for most couples. The topic of how to avoid divorce is a great conversation question to ask your partner while dating. These types of relationship questions are useful conversation starters when your married too.
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How can we make sure we remain happily faithful and committed to each other in a long-term relationship?
Everyone has different beliefs and ideas about marriage and what it takes to make the relationship last. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people quietly suffering in unhappy relationships where the love that once flourished is now dead. By asking relationship questions about your future together, you can share your perspectives and come up with your own ideas for making your marriage work.
You’ll also be able to identify thoughts based on fear or jealousy that may actually have a negative influence on your love life. Although you want to be aware of potential problems, overly protective thoughts and actions can actually harm a relationship. Instead, focus on positive ways to strengthen and nourish your relationship so your love grows. Think of ways you can stretch out of your comfort zone and invigorate your love life, even if it means taking a few risks together.
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