Everyone wants an exciting and satisfying sex life. One filled with erotic adventures, stimulating sensations, romantic intimacy and creative foreplay. If you want more excitement in your relationship, you can be sure your partner does too. They may not show it but you know their passion is just waiting for the right spark to ignite the fires of their lust.
When you want more sizzle in your sex life, you need to find out what get’s you both hot first. Do either of you have any secret sexual desires smoldering on the back burner? Are there spicy new erotic ideas that will catch alight and burn bright in your relationship? What will inspire you to fan the flames of your love so it blazes with intense passion and excitement? Discovering the answers to these questions requires even more steamy questions. But with the right spark, you’ll be able to start your sexual fires burning in no time.
To help couples start a hot conversation about sex together, my husband and I decided to write a book with questions for couples that cover a variety of sexual topics. We’ve included 469 fun sex questions that will help stoke your desire with creative new ideas for being naughty, frisky and playful. You can use them any time to stimulate thought provoking discussions that will arouse both your mind and body. Tease and tantalize each other with hot talk as you reveal your answers and inflame your craving for each other.
We’ve also created a version for women in a lesbian relationship. Both books are available from Amazon in Kindle, paperback and hardcover formats.
All the sex questions in these books are for fun and for play – leave the serious questions for some other time. Whether you’re curled up next to each other or talking on the phone, start a sexy conversation today and see where it leads. When you feel more comfortable talking about sex together, you’ll feel much more comfortable enjoying sex too.
Special Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own creative sex ideas and the dirty games you like to play. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
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Here are some questions to ask your partner about using sex toys while in a relationship. Discussing how you each feel about sex toys in general can be extremely insightful. This can be a very sensitive subject for many people but it’s worth finding out.
While discussing these sex questions together, you’re sure to find that certain attitudes and assumptions you each have are radically different based on the type of pleasure accessory involved. For example, do you think sex toys like vibrators and dildos are only for women? What about butt plugs? Are sex toys only good for masturbating with or can/should they only be used together? Are sex toys only required if you are having performance issues? Are strap-ons or double ended dildos only for lesbians or can straight couples use them too?
It’s unfortunate that many people are still embarrassed about self pleasuring with or without sex toys especially when they’re in a relationship. Instead of exploring their true sexual nature together, they hide their sex toys even from the person they’re being physically intimate with. Of course, masturbation is still an important sexual outlet even while in a sexually satisfying relationship. But why not use any and all pleasure enhancement accessories you can to explore your full sexual potential with your partner as well.
If you’re curious about using toys together to spice up your sex life, make a sexy game with the following sex question:
See which one of you can come up with the most ideas then pick one or a few to try out. If you run out of ideas, visit our Frisky Foreplay Vibrator Ideas article and discover over 30 sexy ideas for using a vibrator together as foreplay. See if you came up with any different ones. By playing this little couples game, you’ll learn new sexy ideas to help make your orgasms more intense and pleasurable. Sex toys are great for self stimulation but they can be even more fun when used together in and out of the bedroom.
Surprise your lover with a new sex toy for couples and explore creative new types of erotic pleasure together. You can dramatically spice up your sex life and improve your marriage when you gain the confidence to share your adult toys and sexual fantasies with the one you love. Click on the banner link below to see if there are any kinky toys you might be interested in. They have “normal sex toys” too.
Special Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own creative sex ideas and the dirty games you like to play. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to our books anyway you can.
Enjoy Being Naughty!
How to give the best oral sex for women?
Here is a video with answers to this sexy question. You’ll discover how to improve oral sex with 10 good cunnilingus tips for enjoying oral pleasure longer and more often. Experience the joys of juicy female orgasms and have her begging for more.
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After watching the video, try this little erotic couples game that can get you both talking more about your oral sex preferences. Use the letters in Cunnilingus to start a list of oral sex tips related to the word. Look at the list below as an example then try to come up with your own separate lists of sensual oral pleasuring ideas to share with each other. It’s fun to work on it together too.
There are many oral sex techniques and positions you can use to make cunnilingus more enjoyable for both of you. Every woman is unique in what she likes and how she likes it. Also, what works one day may not necessarily work well the next. Be sure to ask your lover which cunnilingus techniques she enjoys most and how she wants you to go down on her. Also encourage each other to experiment with creative oral sex play and learn how to have even more pleasure together. Discover more explicit orgasmic licking ideas by clicking on the image below.
How did you first learn to kiss and what else would you like to learn about kissing?
If you’re just starting to date, you know how important kissing can be for your relationship to continue. If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, your focus on kissing may have shifted but your ability to kiss well is still affecting your relationship even if you don’t know it. Most people don’t come right out and tell you that you’re a bad kisser. Instead, they avoid kissing you and eventually your intimacy and passion for each other will fade. Wouldn’t it be better if you could find out about the quality of your kissing before your relationship breaks down? You may not even realize you’re a lousy kisser or what you can do about it. But rather than directly asking your partner if you’re a good kisser or telling them they suck at kissing, ask a few intimate questions about how they learned to kiss and what else they would like to know about kissing. By starting to talk about your past kissing experiences and what you’ve learned, you can guide the conversation to how you can both learn to kiss better.
If you’re even a teeny bit anxious about your ability to kiss well or would like to teach your partner how to kiss better, take a look at the Ultimate French Kissing Guide. Keep the love and intimacy alive in your relationship and spice up your sex life when you discover the secrets of how to french kiss and make out with sensual passion.
In what ways do you feel we can improve the way we kiss?
Early in your relationship, you may have spent a lot of time together kissing and making out even if it didn’t lead to sex. Kissing in itself was a sensual pleasure that got you excited for each other and helped create your emotional connection. Kissing was most likely a big part of foreplay when you first started to have sex together but you also kissed a lot throughout the day. Unfortunately, as a relationship matures, many couples discover the amount of kissing drops off especially when it’s not leading to sex. And even during foreplay, there may be less focus on sensual kissing. Why settle for mediocre kissing? Ask your partner a few intimate questions about kissing and see if you can come up with ideas to improve the way you kiss. You may discover that you both crave more kissing in your love life. There may be issues with how you kiss, how often, when, where and for how long. By talking about it together, you can improve the way you kiss and maybe experiment with different techniques to make it even more fun.
The sensual intimacy and emotional connection you experience while kissing is very important to many people. Without it, the love in your relationship may start to fade. Even if you believe your relationship is fine, why not add more romantic, affectionate, sensual, erotic and passionate kissing to make it even better. Become fantastic kissers together and enjoy each other even more. Take a look at Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide to Kissing Tips and Techniques. Spice up your sex life and perk up your passion for each other in and out of the bedroom.
How important is a good kiss and how can someone learn to be a better kisser?
For some people, kissing is so important that they’ll even end a relationship if their partner is not a good kisser. And if they do stay in the relationship, they tend to feel unsatisfied with their love life and may eventually end up avoiding sex with their partner. If kissing is important to you or you feel your partner wants you to kiss more, ask each other some intimate questions to explore how important kissing is. You may discover a missing ingredient that is severely affecting your sexual relationship. By talking about it, you can identify what you can both do to improve your kissing style and learn how to enhance and enjoy the sensual pleasure of kissing.
If you want to learn how to be a fantastic kisser, take a look at Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide to Kissing Tips and Techniques. Spice up your sex life and perk up your passion for each other in and out of the bedroom.