Even if you think you’re having great sex, you may be missing out on a crucial element. If you’re not enjoying the best sex of your life, this may be the reason why. An orgasm is not always enough to feel fully satisfied. The thrill and excitement of sex is reduced if your mind isn’t fully engaged. The lead-up to the physical encounter is a mind game we all need to play. Unfortunately, with the daily stresses of life, mental foreplay is often sacrificed for efficiency. Are there really so many more important things to do?
If sex seems boring or you’re opting to just watch a new series on TV together, you need more mental foreplay to arouse desire in your relationship. Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other about non-physical stimulation that can reignite the passion in your lovemaking. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure that starts in your mind. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
Mental Foreplay to Arouse Desire
- How do you feel about mental stimulation as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use dirty talk as part of our foreplay?
- In what ways do you feel erotica can be used as foreplay?
- How do you feel about watching porn together as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use our cell phones in our foreplay?
- What types of visual stimulation gets you excited?
- Do you get turned on watching me play with myself?
- What do you do to get ready for sex together?
- How do you feel about exploring and sharing our sexual fantasies?
- What kinds of erotic role-playing scenarios would you like to try?
- How do you feel about using text or instant messaging to flirt with each other?
- What do you think about writing dirty letters or emails to each other?
- What types of clothing do I wear that make you think of having sex?
- What can I do that will make you fantasize all day about having sex with me?
- What types of romantic gestures are most likely to get you in the mood to make love?
- What foods or smells do you find to be an aphrodisiac?
- How can I best set the mood for a night of romantic lovemaking?
- In what ways can we perform mental foreplay together?
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other intimate questions can you think of about mental foreplay?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one or more of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
A great way to arouse desire is by sharing sexual fantasies and planning erotic roleplaying scenarios to fulfill them. Get one of our books below to whet your appetite. They are designed for you to plan out or customize the roleplay scenarios so you can Make It Personal and Make It Happen!
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Have you ever asked your partner a “have you ever” style of question? You might think these types of sex questions are only for newly dating couples. However, you’d be surprised how many people in long-term relationships have self-censored what they revealed about their sexual history. Over the years, many married couples just assume they know each other intimately, with nothing new to discover. This can even lead to a false impression that your partner would be unwilling to try new sex play activities. In their wild days of youthful exploration, they must have either done it or didn’t want to. If they didn’t mention it, they must not have wanted to try it or were turned off by the idea.
If you want to spice up your relationship, now is the time to dust off old assumptions and get reacquainted with all the naughty fun you experienced in the past. Begin with the yes/no aspect of the “have you ever” sex question and use it to start an intimate discussion. Even if you still feel uncomfortable revealing specific details, you can always steer the discussion in a positive direction. Adapt the idea to a pleasuring activity you can both enjoy today.
Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other that start with “Have You Ever”. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can enhance your adult play with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Remember to be open and receptive to the answers you receive.
Have You Ever Sex Play Questions
- Have you ever been tied up, blindfolded and teased as foreplay?
- Have you ever used whipped cream or chocolate syrup during foreplay?
- Have you ever used body paints as foreplay?
- Have you ever performed a strip tease?
- Have you ever masturbated to visually arouse a lover?
- Have you ever played with yourself to show a lover how you like it?
- Have you ever roleplayed as an erotic photographer or model?
- Have you ever played any strip games like strip poker?
- Have you ever played a dirty version of Truth or Dare?
- Have you ever had sex without kissing?
- Have you ever slow danced naked before making love?
- Have you ever used an ice cube during foreplay?
- Have you ever used an artist brush to stimulate a lover?
- Have you ever had a naked pillow fight?
- Have you ever engaged in cyber foreplay with a lover before having sex?
- Have you ever cross-dressed for erotic roleplay?
- Have you ever dressed up just before having sex?
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other “have you ever” questions can you think of?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, since these questions are phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
If you’re more interested in a party game for a group of close friends, consider the card game: Never Have I Ever or WHATEVER: The Party Game of Awkward Challenges
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In addition to the intense sensations of raw, passionate sex and climax, sensual pleasuring is an essential part of any intimate relationship. But the type of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. How our various erogenous zones are stimulated may be even more important. In some situations, very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’re both already horny. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind-down period involving relaxing sensual pleasure before making love.
An orgasm is not always enough to feel fully satisfied. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings, from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate questions about your foreplay desires, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other about sensual pleasuring and the stimulation you prefer performing and receiving. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
Sensual Pleasures
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy as foreplay for your pleasure?
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy performing as foreplay for my pleasure?
- What parts of your body do you most enjoy getting massaged?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique to pleasure me?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique I use to pleasure you?
- What foreplay technique turns you on the most?
- How much and what types of kissing do you enjoy?
- Do we kiss enough before, during or after sex?
- How can I improve how I kiss you?
- What types of affection would you like more of during the day to feel loved?
- What flavour or scent of massage oil do you find the most arousing?
Stimulating Erogenous Zones
- Can intercourse be foreplay?
- What do you think are my most sensitive erogenous zones?
- What foreplay technique do you feel gets me most excited and why?
- What are your most ticklish erogenous zones?
- Which of my erogenous zones do you most enjoy stimulating?
- Which erogenous zones would you like me to stimulate more during foreplay?
- Which of your erogenous zones would you like me to pay more attention to during foreplay?
- Are there any parts of your body you would prefer me not to stimulate during foreplay?
- In what ways can you imagine using an artist brush for sensual pleasure?
- What types of anal play would you enjoy as part of our foreplay?
- What forms of nipple stimulation do you enjoy most?
- How often would you prefer including oral sex as foreplay?
- How do you most enjoy being touched during foreplay?
- What different touching techniques would you like to try?
- Is there a certain kind of perfume or cologne that gets you in the mood?
- Are there any foreplay skills you feel we need to learn or relearn?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
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Foreplay is an essential part of any intimate sexual relationship. But the type and quantity of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. The quality of foreplay may be even more important. In some situations, very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’re both already horny. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind-down period involving relaxing sensual pleasure before making love.
To feel fully satisfied, an orgasm is not always enough. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings, from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate questions about the quantity and quality of your foreplay, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other about foreplay. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once or even in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
Foreplay Questions: Quantity and Quality
- How important is foreplay to you for great sex?
- When does foreplay end and sex begin?
- What makes for good foreplay?
- What do you feel are the male and female responsibilities in foreplay?
- What defines the difference between foreplay, sex play and after play?
- How much foreplay do you desire on average before the main event?
- How much foreplay do you feel is appropriate before sexual intercourse?
- How much foreplay do you feel is appropriate before anal intercourse?
- In what situations would you forego foreplay and just have sex?
- On average how long do you feel foreplay should last?
- Do you feel we are having enough foreplay before sex?
- What types of foreplay would you like more of?
- Can sex still be good without any foreplay?
- Do you feel you know when I want things sensual or more intense?
- Do you feel I get your body language signals right most of the time?
- In what ways do you feel we can better communicate our desires?
- What time of day do you most feel like having more foreplay?
- How can we arrange our day so we have more time to enjoy foreplay together?
- What would your most romantic foreplay session involve?
- Do you prefer to be spontaneous in what we do as foreplay or plan it out?
- In what ways do you like to mix up your foreplay moves?
- If you were giving a woman advice on foreplay what is your best tip?
- If you were giving a guy advice on foreplay what is your best tip?
- Are there any foreplay habits or routines you feel need a make over?
For more intimate questions for couples, get one of our books and discover ways to spice up your sex life:
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If you want to mix fun sex questions with foreplay, check out our dirty truth or dare game books featured in the sidebar.
Special Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own creative sex ideas and the dirty games you like to play. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
Enjoy Being Naughty!
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Even if you’re in a long term relationship, playing an adult truth or dare game with your lover is a great way to explore each other’s desires and come up with fresh new sex ideas to try out. A game setting also helps to relieve any anxiety about bringing up certain types of sexual topics (everyone has at least a few secret desires kept hidden). As the game heats up and you’ve asked each other all the basic sex questions, you’ll naturally want to get more explicit and dirty.
But there’s a problem. If you’re trying to spice up your lovemaking and get out of your sexual comfort zone, it can be hard to come up with interesting sex questions to ask. You may even think you know each other so well already. This is a trap lots of couples fall into that can ruin your sex life. What you need is a way to inspire your own erotic creativity with a variety of sexual topics and ideas that you would not normally consider.
You also want good sex questions that arouse your interest and desire for even better sex. Dirty truth questions should encourage you to explore topics that may make you feel uncomfortable or even embarrassed but in a good way. Exploring inhibitions and taboo subjects can help make sex feel naughty and thrilling again.
If you want to spice up your love life, take a look at this video overview of a dirty truth or dare app for couples. The app has over 3000 fun sex questions and dirty dares to give you lots of variety to play with. It can be played by couples alone together or with a group of intimate friends. When another couple or two are playing together with you, there are preference options available to keep the sexy truth questions and dirty dares between couples or mix it up.
Click on the link for more details: Dirty Truth or Dare App
The app is available for iPhone, iPad and Apple TV.
Playing dirty truth or dare with a small group of friends is a great way to test out the possibility of a threesome or more-some. There are even gay, lesbian and bi-sexual options to suit any and all preferences. Try the game and see how far you’re both willing to get out of your sexual comfort zones.
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We have not yet ported our app for use with Android devices. However, we have designed book based variations for straight, gay and lesbian couples. Although many of the sex questions and dirty dares are similar to those in the app, they have been modified slightly. The game play has also been adapted to suit a book format. It’s a dice based variation of dirty truth or dare especially for couples that want to play naughty.
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These two versions are similar in design but with different content. Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.
They’re easy to play. Just roll three different colored dice, then look up one of the hundreds of unique, pleasure oriented activities to enjoy. There are six intensity levels. A set of Double Dirty Dares are also included to stimulate even more fun.
All the sexual challenges and intimate questions for couples in these books are for fun and foreplay. Each intimate activity helps stoke your desire with creative new ideas for being naughty, frisky, and playful (in and out of the bedroom). These sexy truth or dare games for couples can be played anytime you want to stimulate your mind and body. Tease and tantalize each other with hot talk and delightfully delicious deeds. Add some spice to your love life and inflame your craving for each other.
These books also include a variation of the Frisky Foreplay Fooling Around game for couples.
Challenge your partner to spice up your sex life today. Get the app or one of the books right now and see what kinds of naughty sex play you’re willing to try tonight.
Special Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own creative sex ideas and the dirty games you like to play. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
Enjoy Being Naughty!
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Here is a video that describes how couples can improve their relationship by asking each other intimate questions about sex.
Get the 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples book and start an intimate conversation with your partner. Discover how much fun you can have talking about your sex life together. See how many questions you can get through before ravishing each other.
If you have a Kindle or the free reader app on the iPad, you can download the ebook version right now. Just click 469 Sex Questions for Couples and see how easy it can be to have a hot conversation with your partner about the sex you desire. You’ll both be glad you did.
For women in a lesbian relationship, see our book 469 Fun Sex Questions for Lesbian Couples: Spice Up Your Relationship With Hot Talk & Hotter Sex.
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