Which regular household objects can you imagine using for sensual pleasure?
This fun sex question explores how sexually creative or kinky you can be. Let your imaginations run wild and see how many you can think up. Turn it into a sex game.
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We’ve all experienced the situation when we say something that someone else interprets in a way we didn’t intend. And there were probably many more times that we’re not even aware of it happening. Whether spoken, heard, written or read, words are the primary way we communicate with people. Words may be defined in a dictionary but we all have slightly different meanings developed in our own minds. Even if we are using the same “official” definition, everyone has a personal meaning associated with words they know. Our experiences, emotions and memories get tied up with words and phrases we hear throughout our lives. Even without knowing it, certain words will automatically trigger thoughts and emotions that affect how we communicate with other people. In a relationship, this can lead to false assumptions, miscommunication and arguments. Being aware that people may react strongly to various words will help when you ask each other dating questions or even more intimate sex questions.
When it comes to sex, words are even more emotionally loaded. One word could turn you on while it’s synonym might turn you off totally. Knowing which one to use while attempting to talk dirty in bed might be useful information. Sex related swear words and even derogatory slang can also play a role in hot dirty talk. But again the choice of words can be critical. During the throes of passion, some women may get off being called a Slut while others would cringe in disgust. In a similar way, Bitch may resonate with some women’s persona while for others it’s demeaning. Like a mental minefield, it’s important to discover what words your lover prefers so you can avoid triggering a bad reaction.
We also develop various euphemisms to describe sexual activities or situations. These sexual euphemisms get picked up based on our social setting and experiences involving friends, parents, TV, movies, books, etc. Based on the feelings involved during these experiences, various words and phrases can also become emotionally charged. For instance, do you like to get laid, screwed, fucked or made love to and in what context? Do prefer the terms going down, sucked off, eaten out, blow job or the more clinical terms like cunnilingus and fellatio?
Here are some sample sex questions to help identify the best words and phrases to use in your intimate conversations and which ones to avoid:
As your relationship matures, you’ll find that you make up your own secret code words to use while flirting openly in public settings. Your sly innuendos with hidden meanings can be used to tease each other while ramping up your desire to have wild passionate sex the first chance you get. You can use this like mental foreplay anywhere you desire.
Here are some books that will provide more information to guide your erotic talk and sexy seduction techniques:
What are the right words for you in your relationship?
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What types of things can I do that would increase your desire to have even more sex?
When you first start having sex, your brain chemistry helps keep the passion hot. But at some point, regular life starts to become a distraction and the amount or quality of your lovemaking may drop. When this lull occurs, there are ways to regain your intimacy.
Check out Fanning The Female Flame to discover how to increase female desire. Unfortunately, men also experience a lack of sexual desire. In fact, there are many people living in sexless marriages. Hopefully, you can avoid this situation.
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What is one tip or technique you think would make oral sex even better for you?
When answering this type of sex question, try to focus on the positive things rather than saying “stop doing … ” or “I hate it when you …” and you’ll get better results. For tips and techniques to improve your oral sex, take a look at Lick by Lick (cunnilingus tips) and Blow by Blow (fellatio tips).
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What better way to find out what turns your lover on than to share your sexual fantasies? There’s only one problem: many people don’t want to admit they have fantasies or don’t think they actually do fantasize. It’s not that people don’t fantasize, it’s that they have a different internal belief about what a fantasy actually is. They may even believe that people only fantasize during masturbation or during sex if they are bored with their lover. In this context, they may not even want to admit to having fantasies for fear it will upset their partner. They may even suppress their fantasies because they feel guilty or ashamed about them. But sexual fantasies can be a healthy and important part of your sex life together. Learning how to share your desires can lead to a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship with the person you love.
Fantasies come in all types from full sensory mental movies including colour, sound, taste, smell and complete story line to quick and simple thoughts of a sexual encounter. You don’t even need to be in a sexual situation to day dream an erotic thought or idea (not necessarily one that you would like to experience but still of a sexual nature). Even if you are planning an evening of romance and thinking through timing, setting the mood, gathering various foreplay accessories to use and deciding who’s going to be on top, then you’re fantasizing.
The other thing to keep in mind with regard to certain types of sexual fantasies is that many shock even ourselves. People may even feel horrified with the level of deviant desire or type of kinky behaviour involved. The imagined activities may excite a person during sex or masturbation but leave them feeling guilty and ashamed later. You would need to utterly trust a lover or partner before divulging these types of fantasies. Being resistant to share this intimate secret, it’s easier to just suppress knowledge of the fantasy and deny having them. No amount of prodding or probing will make your partner reveal it and may make them feel even more defensive. If pressured, they may be compelled to make up a fantasy that they feel is “normal”.
There are also fantasies that may be so wildly fanciful and occur in impossible scenarios that people may not even consider them valid sexual fantasies since they don’t involve two humans directly. Others may even be considered criminal activities if actually performed. In these contexts, you can see why many people will again resist sharing their most erotic fantasy.
When sharing fantasies you also need to take into account the power of our imagination. Even master story tellers would have a hard time describing every detail in a way that conveys the true mental world of a sexual fantasy and how it triggers the full range of emotions. And when you reveal your erotic thoughts, it’s easy to leave out sensitive details or even recast the scenario just enough to make it more “appropriate”.
So just coming out and asking ‘Do you have sexual fantasies?‘ is somewhat pointless. Also, avoid yes/no type questions if you can. Rather ask for feelings, descriptions, opinions, explanations, etc. to stimulate a conversation. Sex questions about erotic fantasies are better rephrased about sexy ideas, thoughts or desires. Here are a few sexy questions:
As you can see, these types of sex questions stimulate a conversation without asking your partner to explicitly reveal their most intimate sexual fantasies. However, their answers do provide useful insights that both of you can use to spice up your sex life together.
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After sharing your sexual fantasies, you’ll want to enjoy roleplaying a few erotic scenarios to fulfill them. Get one of our books below to whet your appetite. They are designed for you to plan out or customize the roleplay scenarios so you can Make It Personal and Make It Happen!
As you explore these sexy scenarios, dare each other to play naughty and experience some deliciously wicked fun together in or out of your bedroom. Use the ideas to stimulate your erotic imaginations together. You’re bound to come up with even more of your own roleplay fantasies to spice up your sex play. Get one of our sexual roleplaying books, pick a sexy fantasy scenario, and start a lust filled adventure for two tonight.
To enhance your roleplaying fantasies and adult dress up games even more, check out some of the very sexy costumes available online. You don’t need costumes to enjoy roleplaying, but they can help get you in the right frame of mind to more easily act out your character’s role.
For even more inspiration, see our article Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Role Play Ideas for Couples.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
In what ways can you think of using a rose in foreplay?
What sensual foreplay activities can you think of doing with flowers or chocolate?
For more sensual ideas, see the blog post Intimate Valentine’s Day Ideas for Lovers.
One of the best Valentine’s Day gifts is hot sex.
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They may be for his pleasure, but you’re definitely going to enjoy them too!
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