In addition to the intense sensations of raw, passionate sex and climax, sensual pleasuring is an essential part of any intimate relationship. But the type of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. How our various erogenous zones are stimulated may be even more important. In some situations, very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’re both already horny. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind-down period involving relaxing sensual pleasure before making love.
An orgasm is not always enough to feel fully satisfied. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings, from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate questions about your foreplay desires, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other about sensual pleasuring and the stimulation you prefer performing and receiving. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
Sensual Pleasures
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy as foreplay for your pleasure?
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy performing as foreplay for my pleasure?
- What parts of your body do you most enjoy getting massaged?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique to pleasure me?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique I use to pleasure you?
- What foreplay technique turns you on the most?
- How much and what types of kissing do you enjoy?
- Do we kiss enough before, during or after sex?
- How can I improve how I kiss you?
- What types of affection would you like more of during the day to feel loved?
- What flavour or scent of massage oil do you find the most arousing?
Stimulating Erogenous Zones
- Can intercourse be foreplay?
- What do you think are my most sensitive erogenous zones?
- What foreplay technique do you feel gets me most excited and why?
- What are your most ticklish erogenous zones?
- Which of my erogenous zones do you most enjoy stimulating?
- Which erogenous zones would you like me to stimulate more during foreplay?
- Which of your erogenous zones would you like me to pay more attention to during foreplay?
- Are there any parts of your body you would prefer me not to stimulate during foreplay?
- In what ways can you imagine using an artist brush for sensual pleasure?
- What types of anal play would you enjoy as part of our foreplay?
- What forms of nipple stimulation do you enjoy most?
- How often would you prefer including oral sex as foreplay?
- How do you most enjoy being touched during foreplay?
- What different touching techniques would you like to try?
- Is there a certain kind of perfume or cologne that gets you in the mood?
- Are there any foreplay skills you feel we need to learn or relearn?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
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