Even if you think you’re having great sex, you may be missing out on a crucial element. If you’re not enjoying the best sex of your life, this may be the reason why. An orgasm is not always enough to feel fully satisfied. The thrill and excitement of sex is reduced if your mind isn’t fully engaged. The lead-up to the physical encounter is a mind game we all need to play. Unfortunately, with the daily stresses of life, mental foreplay is often sacrificed for efficiency. Are there really so many more important things to do?
If sex seems boring or you’re opting to just watch a new series on TV together, you need more mental foreplay to arouse desire in your relationship. Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other about non-physical stimulation that can reignite the passion in your lovemaking. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure that starts in your mind. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
Mental Foreplay to Arouse Desire
- How do you feel about mental stimulation as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use dirty talk as part of our foreplay?
- In what ways do you feel erotica can be used as foreplay?
- How do you feel about watching porn together as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use our cell phones in our foreplay?
- What types of visual stimulation gets you excited?
- Do you get turned on watching me play with myself?
- What do you do to get ready for sex together?
- How do you feel about exploring and sharing our sexual fantasies?
- What kinds of erotic role-playing scenarios would you like to try?
- How do you feel about using text or instant messaging to flirt with each other?
- What do you think about writing dirty letters or emails to each other?
- What types of clothing do I wear that make you think of having sex?
- What can I do that will make you fantasize all day about having sex with me?
- What types of romantic gestures are most likely to get you in the mood to make love?
- What foods or smells do you find to be an aphrodisiac?
- How can I best set the mood for a night of romantic lovemaking?
- In what ways can we perform mental foreplay together?
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other intimate questions can you think of about mental foreplay?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one or more of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
A great way to arouse desire is by sharing sexual fantasies and planning erotic roleplaying scenarios to fulfill them. Get one of our books below to whet your appetite. They are designed for you to plan out or customize the roleplay scenarios so you can Make It Personal and Make It Happen!
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