Have you ever asked your partner a “have you ever” style of question? You might think these types of sex questions are only for newly dating couples. However, you’d be surprised how many people in long-term relationships have self-censored what they revealed about their sexual history. Over the years, many married couples just assume they know each other intimately, with nothing new to discover. This can even lead to a false impression that your partner would be unwilling to try new sex play activities. In their wild days of youthful exploration, they must have either done it or didn’t want to. If they didn’t mention it, they must not have wanted to try it or were turned off by the idea.
If you want to spice up your relationship, now is the time to dust off old assumptions and get reacquainted with all the naughty fun you experienced in the past. Begin with the yes/no aspect of the “have you ever” sex question and use it to start an intimate discussion. Even if you still feel uncomfortable revealing specific details, you can always steer the discussion in a positive direction. Adapt the idea to a pleasuring activity you can both enjoy today.
Here is a variety of fun, sexy questions to ask each other that start with “Have You Ever”. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can enhance your adult play with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations and not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Remember to be open and receptive to the answers you receive.
Have You Ever Sex Play Questions
- Have you ever been tied up, blindfolded and teased as foreplay?
- Have you ever used whipped cream or chocolate syrup during foreplay?
- Have you ever used body paints as foreplay?
- Have you ever performed a strip tease?
- Have you ever masturbated to visually arouse a lover?
- Have you ever played with yourself to show a lover how you like it?
- Have you ever roleplayed as an erotic photographer or model?
- Have you ever played any strip games like strip poker?
- Have you ever played a dirty version of Truth or Dare?
- Have you ever had sex without kissing?
- Have you ever slow danced naked before making love?
- Have you ever used an ice cube during foreplay?
- Have you ever used an artist brush to stimulate a lover?
- Have you ever had a naked pillow fight?
- Have you ever engaged in cyber foreplay with a lover before having sex?
- Have you ever cross-dressed for erotic roleplay?
- Have you ever dressed up just before having sex?
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other “have you ever” questions can you think of?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, since these questions are phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
If you’re more interested in a party game for a group of close friends, consider the card game: Never Have I Ever or WHATEVER: The Party Game of Awkward Challenges