What forms of BDSM play have you heard of and how do you feel about them?
There is a diverse range of sexual practices that people engage in for erotic pleasure. You or your partner are likely to have certain erotic interests that you believe to be out of the ordinary, but may actually be fairly common. Many people keep these erotic desires secret and unsatisfied without even realizing their partner may have similar or compatible interests and desires. For instance, you may have a desire to spank your lover’s ass, but resist even though they may love the feeling of receiving an erotic spanking. Or they would love to dress in black leather and dominate you as their sex slave while you privately yearn to be a sexual submissive. If you knew each other’s deepest erotic urges, you would be able to spice up your sex life with an entirely new realm of pleasure possibilities.
It may seem a little intimidating if you directly tell your lover about specific sexual desires that you believe are shocking or perverted. Instead, try asking playful sex questions about a range of BDSM ideas and discuss how you each feel about them. You may discover a variety of activities that you would both enjoy experimenting with. As you get more comfortable with BDSM play and learn the ropes (pun intended), you’ll be better able to express other desires and see where they lead.
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