What sorts of pain play would you like to experiment with?
The sex questions this week were all about more adventurous types of adult play. For some people, pain play is a form of intense stimulation that is extremely erotic both emotionally and physically. Intense pain can even trigger the release of endorphins creating a natural high with effects similar to various drugs. Pain and pleasure can go together in the right sexual situation, but you may still feel uncomfortable with this kind of erotic activity even if your partner wants it.
Starting a discussion on different types of pain play can be a good way to bring up the subject. You can learn more on the topic of SM and discover how you each feel about giving or receiving pain as pleasure during sex play. You could start off with sensual spanking, light biting and hair pulling during rough sex before attempting to experiment with intense pain techniques involving hot wax, nipple clamps, flogging, paddles, piercing, etc. For these more extreme erotic practices, learn as much as you can about it so you can play safe. Even if actual pain is not something you want to experiment with, you could just read some BDSM erotica together and enjoy pain play together in your sexual fantasies.
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