What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?
A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body or activity. The degree of eroticism for the fetish item is usually abnormal. This may or may not be a problem for the person with the fetish or their partner. As a topic for dating questions, directly asking someone if they have a fetish might seem a little inappropriate. But when you ask your partner about their awareness of fetishes and any that interest them, you can start an intimate discussion where you both may feel more comfortable revealing any fetish like desires.
Fetish play can be a fun form of kinky sex that you can experiment with to spice up your sex life. If you do discover that your partner has an intense fetish that you’re not comfortable with, this may be a sign of a potentially unhealthy relationship that you may need to evaluate carefully. There is a big difference between normal sexual turn ons and fetishes that can lead to problems unless you have compatible erotic preferences.
If you’re curious about different kinds of sexual fetishes and the types of sex play other couples enjoy, browse the JT’s Stockroom website for some ideas (click the banner below). Look through it with your partner and use the different categories of sex toys to spark up a hot, intimate sex talk about how they might be used in your erotic adventures together. Try not to be too critical about any of the items even if they seem really bizarre to you. Be as open as you can to the erotic possibilities and keep the conversation going. Your partner may have a special fantasy that includes a kinky toy and you might be surprised just how fun it can be.
