We created a short video to go with this article about questions to ask women about their experiences with sex toys. Unfortunately, the YouTube censors determined it was age-restricted. Here are the questions from the video. The teaser video is very quick. The timing is based on the iMovie trailer template, but it’s fun to […]

In what creative ways can you imagine using ice in our sex play? There are many ways to use an ice cube during foreplay. Stroking erogenous zones like ear lobes, neck, breasts, belly and thighs are the obvious ones. Sucking on an ice cube before performing oral sex is another sensual treat. Consider making love […]

What form of erotic communication would you like to experiment with while we are apart? When you are away from each other for any period of time, it’s always nice to keep the home fires burning with desire. With modern computer/phone communication technologies, we can send text and instant messages throughout the day. We can […]

What new types of foreplay would you enjoy experimenting with? Even if the sex is really good, sometimes the sensual pleasures leading up to and after intercourse could use a slight menu adjustment. Just like different appetizers, desserts or spices can add new life to a steak & potatoes dinner every night, a few new […]

Spice up your sex life by asking some very intimate questions about the dirty side of your erotic desires. Have you ever farted while a lover was going down on you? Will you still have sex even if it’s that time of month? Have you ever gone down on a girl and discovered she was […]

What items would you include in a pleasure chest that gets stranded with us on an exotic island resort? Let’s qualify this sex question a bit to avoid going off on a tangent. Keep the focus on sensual creativity rather than survival. Imagine you’re both stranded on a fancy exotic island resort all alone for […]