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How can we make blowjobs more exciting and fun for both of us?
Have you ever thought that giving or receiving a blowjob could become boring? It may seem ridiculous until you’ve been in a longer-term relationship. It’s then that you notice the frequency of blowjobs diminishing to the point of happening once or twice a year, if at all.
Let’s be clear: oral pleasuring as part of foreplay may occur whenever you have sex. A blowjob to orgasm is different. For many men, when they come, that’s the end of the sex session most times. Of course, some guys will be ready to go again in minutes or hours. Others may require a day or more to recuperate. Regardless, many women still enjoy performing blowjobs. They will forego having intercourse in various situations and for various reasons.
However, even if you both enjoy blowjobs in your sex life, the number you give or receive will eventually drop off significantly. Consider your current or past relationship if you’re with a new partner. Were the blowjob encounters spontaneous, fun and exciting? How have they evolved as your relationship matured?
One of the curious aspects of long-term relationships is that we tend to care about our partners more and become more comfortable with each other. Weird as it may sound, that is actually bad for thrilling, titillating sex. In the case of blowjobs, a woman may be performing amazing oral sex, but the guy doesn’t want to come in her mouth. She may have worked hard to get him to blow, but he pulls out to have intercourse with her instead. He may be thinking he doesn’t want to deprive her of pleasure even though she may have been having the time of her life sucking him off. Maybe she was thinking he would go down on her afterwards. Instead, they both default to sexual intercourse without directly or explicitly communicating their desires.
Either way, she may come to think intercourse is his preferred method of orgasm whether she comes with penetrative sex or not.
Guys may also be anxious about asking their partner for a blowjob. It may feel selfish to ask her to suck him off. He may wrongly assume she doesn’t actually enjoy performing it. He may have bought into the idea that “good girls” don’t do that while forgetting that being naughty adds to her sexual pleasure. Suppressing her sense of “being bad” could dampen her sexual desires and reduce her willingness to experiment in the bedroom.
Consider asking each other intimate questions to identify how you each feel about performing and receiving blowjobs. You know that you both enjoy them. Figure out a way to make sure they are a more regular part of your sex life.
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Here are some dirty questions to ask women about dildos. You may think these types of questions are only for adult truth or dare party games or for newly dating couples. However, even couples in long term relationships can benefit by asking these intimate questions. If you believe you already “know” your partner, be prepared to be pleasantly shocked. That is, if you’re willing to listen with an open mind. When your partner feels sexually confident and emotionally comfortable with you, they may reveal intimate secrets they self-censored early in your relationship. Unfortunately, when it comes to dildos, they may still be hiding them from you.
Since many dildos tend to be phallic shaped with realistic features, men may experience various levels of comparison anxiety. Size, performance and even potential replacement concerns often create a sort of dildo envy jealousy. If you’re a guy with these concerns, consider the “manly” equipment you have in your toolbox. Would you consider yourself less of a man if you used “tools” to get the job done instead of your bare hands? Give yourself a new perspective, buy yourself a sex toy cabinet and stock it full of pleasuring potential.
The following list of dildo questions is a continuation of our original article: Dirty Sex Questions to Ask Girls About Sex Toys.
These are just a sample to inspire your own dirty sex questions about dildos and sex toys in general.
Dildos are not just for single women or unsatisfied wives. Sex toys are designed to enhance adult play. Vibrators and dildos are for fun and pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. When you play together as a couple, they can be even more delightful. To inspire other couples to play with their dildos and vibrators together more often, we challenged ourselves to come up with a hot list of sex toy foreplay ideas. See our article Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator. But, before you take a look, consider playing a sexy game with your partner. Take the erotic challenge together and see who can come up with the best list of playful dildo pleasures. Just thinking of new sexy ideas together is like mental foreplay that’ll get you both excited.
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Please Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own dirty sex questions to ask about dildos and the dirty games you can play with them. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
Here are some dirty questions to ask women about vibrators. You may think these types of questions are only for adult truth or dare party games or for newly dating couples. However, even couples in long term relationships can benefit by asking these intimate questions. If you believe you already “know” your partner, be prepared to be pleasantly shocked, if you’re willing to listen with an open mind. When your partner feels sexually confident and emotionally comfortable with you, they may reveal intimate secrets they self-censored early in your relationship.
The following list of vibrator questions is a continuation of our original article: Dirty Sex Questions to Ask Girls About Sex Toys.
These are just a sample to inspire your own dirty sex questions about vibrators and sex toys in general.
Vibrators are not just for single women or unsatisfied wives. Sex toys are designed to enhance adult play. They are for fun and pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. When you play together as a couple, they can be even more delightful. So, to inspire other couples to play with their vibrators together more often, we challenged ourselves to come up with a hot list of vibrator foreplay ideas. See our article Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator. But, before you take a look, consider playing a sexy game with your partner. Take the erotic challenge together and see who can come up with the best list of playful vibrator pleasures. Just thinking of new sexy ideas together is like mental foreplay that’ll get you both excited.
When you want more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. If you’re ready to step out of your sexual comfort zone, get our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay game book. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Succulent Expressions.
Want to stimulate even more dirty talk and maybe a bit of kinky foreplay? Check out our Spicy Dares & Desires adult game books. These naughty truth or dare games for couples will get you talking dirty and playing dirty. There are plenty of vibrator and dildo questions and dares included.
Please Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own dirty sex questions to ask about vibrators and the dirty games you can play with them. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
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Throughout history, various forms of erotica have been created. From temple carvings, pillow books, erotic paintings and smutty literature to hardcore porn on the internet, naughty stories and images of sex serve as both entertainment and education. People are fascinated by sex, so it’s not likely to go away nor should it. Especially now that it is no longer confined to the wealthy or powerful.
For a majority of people today, visual erotica is preferred over dirty stories or even audio-only adult content. Although many people immediately think of racy images and explicit videos as porn, viewing it as erotic art removes the stigma. But, as with all art, the beauty is in the eyes and mind of the beholder.
We believe a mutual appreciation of erotic art can enhance a relationship. Discovering what you both enjoy will require sampling and discussing a variety of adult content. Rather than censoring or stifling erotic desires, being open to viewing, purchasing or even making your own sexy artwork is much more fulfilling.
To start an intimate discussion, here are a variety of fun sex questions about including visual erotica in your relationship. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative, visual sexual pleasures. These intimate questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations, not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other sex questions can you think of to inspire the use of erotic art to enhance your relationship?
Note that you can reword the questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more sensitive questions about porn in particular, see our article Fun Intimate Questions to Ask About Porn. They are focused on helping you both get a sense of your beliefs and past experiences. Discover how this kind of material has and will influence your sex life together. Of course, watching porn can be good and bad. Learning how to avoid the bad and benefit from the good is the goal.
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Please Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own dirty ideas about erotica. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
Here is a variety of sex questions to ask each other about how you can come up with novel and naughty foreplay ideas to try. Encourage each other to explore dirty thoughts and desires together. Are the kinky foreplay ideas in your erotic imagination something you would prefer performing, receiving or both? Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative foreplay fun.
These sex questions are not intended to be fired off to each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations, not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Use them to inspire new ways to surprise your lover with kinky pleasures or novel sexual thrills.
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other sex questions can you think of to inspire more naughty or kinky foreplay ideas?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
When you want more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. If you’re ready to step out of your sexual comfort zone, get our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay game book. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Succulent Expressions.
Want to stimulate even more dirty, kinky foreplay? Check out our Spicy Dares & Desires adult game books. These naughty truth or dare games for couples will get you talking dirty and playing dirty.
Special Note: The Powers That Be do not allow us to advertise our books due to their sexual content. When you support us by purchasing one or more of our books, please provide a nice rating and leave an appropriate review so other people can find them. Push the limits of the censors by providing reviews that include your own creative sex ideas and the dirty games you like to play. Let’s fight back against the prudes. Share the links to these books anyway you can.
Here is a variety of sexy questions to ask each other about how you can make foreplay even more fun. Discover new and naughty types of foreplay and if you would prefer performing, receiving or both. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative foreplay fun.
These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations, not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Use them to inspire new ways to surprise your lover with sensual pleasure or novel sexual thrills.
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other intimate questions can you think of about wild and fun foreplay?
Note that you can reword some questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
To inspire more fun sexy questions to ask, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. If you want to step out of your sexual comfort zone, get our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay game book. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
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